Case Closed
There's this one guy who I never blogged about, who made me kilig for quite a time. We were like those teenagers who enjoy communicating through texting and exchanging kilig messages almost everyday. Too bad I got attached just because of it. And then one of those days I saw him with a girl who was our mutual friend, and they were flirting at each other and I got kinda mad. So I was thinking, "Seriously? Something mi sa text dayon sa personal lahi na sad iya?!" I was brainstorming by myself on what to do about it. To cut the long brainstorming short, I took the courage to text him like this (yes, text, because I didn't have the courage to tell him this personally):
"Kung naa ka'y nagustuhan lain, siya nalang, ayaw na pag-charchar sa ako kay sa imong gabuhaton, imo ra man gud kong ga-ipa-assume, gaka-hurt sad bya ko."
What I was trying to say is that, if you like someone, just focus on her. Don't look at other girls and hit on them, too. You know, focus only with one. Because there are girls who like boys who flirt with them, some don't. Some only settle for short-term relationships; some think it's fine to jump into one relationship to another as long as the relationship lasted for a year or more; and some like to settle only for only one and marry. But there are girls who can't distinguish a guy's gesture whether it is serious or just a mere teenage-ish flirting. I, during our story, belonged to the latter. I confronted him virtually (oh well) because I know I was that naive for stuff like that. And honestly, I got to like him because of the way he texts and talks (yah, I know I was too shallow) that I was thinking he's worth it to be my first but on the other side, I will be the one who's gonna be the loser in the picture if I didn't do it, right? Better get hurt by the fact that some things just don't work out especially if it's not God's will.
So, what happened?
That virtual confrontation happened almost a year ago.
When we were on a same trip, he told me he had something to tell me. I never thought the topic would be about that thing last year. He asked me if I was okay with what happened to us. I told him I was really mad at him to the point that I hated him for it, but I told him I got over it already. Thanks be to God and to my friends who comforted me. He apologized for not replying properly with my message, and that he was sorry for not clearing things out and left everything, including me, behind.
Well, the thing is that, I appreciate him for opening this thing up to me. I was like, whoa dude you still had the guts to apologize even if it took you a year to do so. I was really happy, and I thank God because this guy has been a blessing also, because I learned a lot about stuff like this from what happened to us, and that I thank God for reminding him to open up and clear it out.
I salute him, really.
So yeah, case closed. x
"Kung naa ka'y nagustuhan lain, siya nalang, ayaw na pag-charchar sa ako kay sa imong gabuhaton, imo ra man gud kong ga-ipa-assume, gaka-hurt sad bya ko."
What I was trying to say is that, if you like someone, just focus on her. Don't look at other girls and hit on them, too. You know, focus only with one. Because there are girls who like boys who flirt with them, some don't. Some only settle for short-term relationships; some think it's fine to jump into one relationship to another as long as the relationship lasted for a year or more; and some like to settle only for only one and marry. But there are girls who can't distinguish a guy's gesture whether it is serious or just a mere teenage-ish flirting. I, during our story, belonged to the latter. I confronted him virtually (oh well) because I know I was that naive for stuff like that. And honestly, I got to like him because of the way he texts and talks (yah, I know I was too shallow) that I was thinking he's worth it to be my first but on the other side, I will be the one who's gonna be the loser in the picture if I didn't do it, right? Better get hurt by the fact that some things just don't work out especially if it's not God's will.
So, what happened?
That virtual confrontation happened almost a year ago.
When we were on a same trip, he told me he had something to tell me. I never thought the topic would be about that thing last year. He asked me if I was okay with what happened to us. I told him I was really mad at him to the point that I hated him for it, but I told him I got over it already. Thanks be to God and to my friends who comforted me. He apologized for not replying properly with my message, and that he was sorry for not clearing things out and left everything, including me, behind.
Well, the thing is that, I appreciate him for opening this thing up to me. I was like, whoa dude you still had the guts to apologize even if it took you a year to do so. I was really happy, and I thank God because this guy has been a blessing also, because I learned a lot about stuff like this from what happened to us, and that I thank God for reminding him to open up and clear it out.
I salute him, really.
So yeah, case closed. x
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