Walls
A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they've got planes, trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way
I always remember you when I think of these lines from Hey There Delilah. I remember it had been only a few months since we had constant communication and I already thought that maybe long distance relationships could work, even if we were not in a relationship. But as time went by, I realized, I was the only one hoping for something to happen.
I gave a chance into something I thought would take place. Then it occurred to me, that maybe long distance relationships are only possible for two people who are decisive enough to take the risk, who are firm enough to stand their ground, and who are mature enough to see and understand the situation they are about to face.
I think it's time for me to really filter the people who try to get in my life or even break my walls because I know, deep down, eventually it will affect my vulnerability. And it's going to make a difference in my life.
I don't want to waste my time again waiting for someone to realize my worth, waiting for someone to grow up but never does. It sucks waiting in vain. It sucks to go back to the same pattern. You break, you get up, and then you build yourself back, after all that you've been through, things get better, you get better. Then you welcome another person again, and you go back from breaking again and the same pattern continues.
But nope, it doesn't have to be like that. Just don't let your guard down to people who are unsure of themselves, who are emotionally unstable. Ever. Don't give them a reason to make you wait in vain just because they are not yet ready but have already broken down your walls. Never do that again. You've already learned your lesson.
You deserve to be pursued. x
But they've got planes, trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way
I always remember you when I think of these lines from Hey There Delilah. I remember it had been only a few months since we had constant communication and I already thought that maybe long distance relationships could work, even if we were not in a relationship. But as time went by, I realized, I was the only one hoping for something to happen.
I gave a chance into something I thought would take place. Then it occurred to me, that maybe long distance relationships are only possible for two people who are decisive enough to take the risk, who are firm enough to stand their ground, and who are mature enough to see and understand the situation they are about to face.
I think it's time for me to really filter the people who try to get in my life or even break my walls because I know, deep down, eventually it will affect my vulnerability. And it's going to make a difference in my life.
I don't want to waste my time again waiting for someone to realize my worth, waiting for someone to grow up but never does. It sucks waiting in vain. It sucks to go back to the same pattern. You break, you get up, and then you build yourself back, after all that you've been through, things get better, you get better. Then you welcome another person again, and you go back from breaking again and the same pattern continues.
But nope, it doesn't have to be like that. Just don't let your guard down to people who are unsure of themselves, who are emotionally unstable. Ever. Don't give them a reason to make you wait in vain just because they are not yet ready but have already broken down your walls. Never do that again. You've already learned your lesson.
You deserve to be pursued. x
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